This
week’s blog assignment included an evaluation that I conducted on myself and I
had to choose two other individuals to evaluate my effectiveness in speaking,
listening, and communication anxiety. The three assessments began by informing
me that the best way for this assessment to be accurate was if I were to be
honest. The test was pretty simple in strategy and technique. They contained
20-21 questions per assessment and ranged in degrees from always to never.
Comparing
the three evaluations revealed that the Listening Styles, Communication Anxiety
Inventory, and Verbal Aggressiveness Scale all ranked within the same category.
For Listening Styles, I scored highest in Group 1 deeming my style to be
people-oriented. In Communication Anxiety Inventory, my score ranged in the
21-33 categories, labeling my communication anxiety Low. Verbal Aggression
scale ranked at a Moderate level with my scores averaging between 53-68.
One
thing that surprised me the most is how all three of our evaluations were
similar. I believe that most of the time I cope with anxiety, avoid verbal
aggressiveness, and listen effectively. It made me feel good that others think
this way about me as well. It a very tedious task to supervise 18 adults and
try to be consistent and calm even when everyone else is in an uproar.
Two
insights that I have learned this week have encouraged me to continue striving
to become a competent communicator. The evaluations served as an instrumental
tool in envisioning how well I am doing and also some improvements that I need
to make. It was equally important to know how others evaluated my ability to
communicate. Part of being an effective leader is the ability to listen, speak,
and deal with anxiety, not only for you, but for all others as well, including
children, families, colleagues, and teachers. I think that as professionals,
these assessments should be done on a regular basis for each individual in the
work place. Being a competent and effective communicator both professional and
personally has the limitless possibility to overcome barriers in communication,
dispel cultural myopia and bias schemas, and positively influence our
interactions and engagements with everyone that we come in contact with.
Dionna ,I s good to read your post! I think is important to being an effective communicator, because we could understand and help to others and also as you mention overcome some barriers like myopia, discrimination, and bias.
ReplyDeleteTo listen to others, and to speak in a good way is important and most is we are teachers.
maria